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  1. Thankfully waking up in panic and sweaty has died down now that we have fewer corona cases. Trying to do stuff with the kids is somehow getting easier and more normal although still moments of frustration because I was not cut out to be a stay at home mom. I still have my jobs and am applying for another one. DH was even less cut out to be a stay at home dad, but now his online classes are over he's not yelling at them as much. We are having more family time together. We're planning to keep the kids home over the summer as well which will save money on camps. With coronavirus I'm worried about all the deaths, the foreclosures, the business closures and people who are maxing out their credit cards just to feed their kids. We've been supporting our food pantries as the small way we are making a difference. I think the closures will be extended.
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    Go away, Murphy

    Man, our toilet seat broke, well that's number 3, so hopefully Murphy will stay away. Looking for pennies, not Murphies.
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    Living...

    Oops, saw cadberries other thread about increasing retirement.
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    Living...

    That's awesome! With fewer monthly expenses will you be putting more into retirement? Putting any more into charity? It's so great to start really paying yourself.
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    Go away, Murphy

    I know what you mean. In the last 2 weeks had a big car repair on our older car, we had to get our dryer fixed, and since murphy likes to come in 3's I'm waiting for the next one. The good thing is that thanks to my in laws and me being home since my work schedule is intermittent we were able to survive on our 1 car with some borrowing of their car and some errands/kid pick up from school run by the in laws so we didn't have to rent a car while our car was in the shop.
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    Life After Divorce

    Great update. Just FYI, you can start your own Roth IRA with any earned income. I have mine at Vanguard and am very happy with it. Most employers offer pretax plans which are also great when you are saving for the future. What a beautiful inspiration your post is.
  7. Source: How to balance all areas of life?
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    Treading water

    I really feel stalled. I know we're saving for the babies but I'm just feeling really stalled and like I'm not making the progress I wanted. Our food costs have skyrocketed and we're eating out more due to my pregnancy really. I have been making my weight gain targets only because of what we've been doing with our food. I have so few things I want to eat and so much makes me nauseous. I'm at 23 weeks right now, and have 7 weeks more before I'm out of the "high risk" category for twins. I'm having a very hard time sleeping between numb arms and leg cramps and babies kicking and just all around anxiety and that just makes it harder to handle stress. I also pretty much can guarantee we're not going to have enough and are going to have to eat into the FFEF which is right now at 6 months. My DH thinks I worry too much. I also worry about how I have become less generous since my TMMO as I've been more focused on BS1,2,3 and feel like it's changed me a bit and I want to be generous and not so focused on money. Thankfully my mom has agreed to spend as long as I need with me once the twins are born because I'm sort of in a panic about how I'll be able to breastfeed them on my own until they really get established. But the point is that saves me from having to hire a doula. I'm really hoping my mom can continue to help rather than having to hire anyone ongoing but we'll see. She lives about an hour a day and is currently mourning the loss of her partner of 10 years. I wasn't sure if I could post to the blogs or not, so sorry this is so ramble. I guess we'll probably be fine, I just feel like we are going backwards because our net worth is now flat with us holding back on BS4 while we sink for me being off of work for 6 months and the way our investments have been going.
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    No new debt!

    I'm trying to keep that mantra going. I really want to get solar electric this year before incentives in my state go away. Either we can go with a smaller 2.5K system that will cover a bit more than 50% of our electricity cost, or a full 4.5 to 5K system that covers 100% of our electricity. Either way it's a 6 year payback. The main problem is you have to pay up front. I believe we could raise up the funds (instead of the slated new car fund) but the early fall and be able to put on the smaller system. The only way to do the entire system would be a personal or home equity loan. Of course home equity interest is tax deductible, and we would only borrow half as we could raise up the other half, but it's still a risk having another loan. The company is also starting a lease program in June, so that's another option, but still paying up front is better, they just take care of all the maintenance. I need to decide soon so that I can change my withholding since it would reduce the taxes owed considerably for 2012.
  10. Sweet, I am getting a raise next paycheck and I'm also getting an extra week of vacation and my extra stipend for the year that I gave back last year! This will cover the decrease from my additional health insurance, and the higher limit for 403b (like 401K) deduction this year and still put a little bit for my snowball. We're also considering investing in solar electricity this year with the excellent incentives in our state and the 30% tax break! That could reduce our electricity cost by about $1,000 per year! We're having a sump pump put in next week to prevent any more flooding in our basement. Fortunately already had saved for that a few months ago.
  11. I just finished hashing over a bunch of projected tax expenses and it looks like the increase we've been taking out of our paychecks may be giving us a refund, but I still have to wait for another couple of months until all the paperwork comes back. Also our accountant has so much depreciation in there for the home business it's rather confusing. But I think my conservative estimates are that we'll be covered. If that holds true, we should by April be able to fill both our Roth IRAs, our SEP- IRA, and get back into progress on BS3! Of course we are taking a trip in March, but that shouldn't really be a problem now if everything goes according to my plan. Hee hee hee. Here's to a great 2012 for everyone!
  12. Wow! What about car insurance/maintenance? What about medical?
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    January's Shopping List

    You're an inspiration!
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    January's Menu

    Could you get whole chickens instead of just chicken breast and "stretch" it?
  15. $60 a month off the grocery budget is HUGE!
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