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Hard to believe it's been a year.....

After 1 year his A1C is holding steady at 5.3 (off meds) and has lost 75 pounds (hovering between 75 and 80). Wants to lose 10-15 more ideally, but is currently stalled where he is. A few newer definitions.... these apparently haven't been around long and are based on the new (to medical professionals) idea that diabetes actually CAN go into remission (what some folks are calling "cured")... "partial remission" = fasting glucose between 5.6 and 6.9 for at least a year (no meds) "complete rem

momto6

momto6

 

No hours left in the day!

I am back in college this quarter, taking 2 classes. I have done school on and off for years, but I know I need to buckle down and finish getting that associate's. My mom and I are kind of in a race, to see who can get their bachelor's faster It's kinda fun. Obviously she has the advantage of being ahead of me already, but it's fun to share and joke with her. Anyway, being a student sucks the time out of my week. There is a lot of basic structured homework (online, business algebra) and then

Gelly

Gelly

 

I'm back and everything is different!

Wow - It's been a while and a lot has happened - actually - everything that could have happened has indeed happened.   I can't stay on long - but here is where we are:   I moved into my own two bedroom apartment in December of 2015.   In Feb of 2016 I was laid off after 10 years.   I freaked out - totally freaked out. Got very depressed - got suicidal - wanted to simply not be anywhere anymore - no job, no husband, no divorce, no friends - it was a really crappy three months - like real

Freedom10

Freedom10

 

2017 Goals (aka Dream Big or Go Home)

2016 Goals:   1) Pay off BBT 2) Open and fully fund two Roth IRAs 3) FFEF of $12,000   Dreaming of.....   1) Refinishing the wood floors on the first floor of our house 2) Installing wood floors in the upstairs bedrooms ($2k, diy) 3) Dormering out the upstairs of our cape cod to make walk-in closets for each bedroom before our 23 yo house needs a new roof (diy) 4) Refacing kitchen cabinets and painting them (dh would make new doors himself) 5) Replacing falling apart dining table/cha

DebtBgone

DebtBgone

 

I need to vent

I can not post this anywhere where anyone knows me because it would not go over well, but I am fed up with Dh's ex.   She gets almost $800 a month in child support and isn't paying the kids's bills. She is 4 months overdue on her share of the orthodontist bill (her share is only $32 a month, ours is more). The school calls us almost daily about the kids overdue lunch accounts (we have them pack so that is ALL her) and she is overdue on their aftercare as well. None of this would be overly

miranova

miranova

 

October!

Well, we are in a place we haven't seen in a while... baby step 3! Based on current projections, after replacing our sinking funds, we will not climb out of the hole until December! So, I stopped the 529 contributions (which kills me) but should help to keep me motivated to fix the mess we are in.   We never made it to the deck project or dental work, but we did go forward with the beater car - and even paid $1000 for it, but spent $$ to pass inspection. We've also had issues with our other c

gmarie

gmarie

 

Hurricane Hermine

Let me begin by saying that we are well, we had no damage to our home, and our power and water are restored. However, half of our city is still without power (since Thursday night) and it may still be a few more days. We are blessed beyond measure to be where we are at this point.   Next let me say that we are so thankful that we saved back some of DH's leave payout from his retirement because that has relieved some of the anxiety related to storm preparation and post-storm "survival". I had

cadberry

cadberry

 

Diabetes update

So we had our 9ish month check up... hard to believe that it's really been that long, but it has. Total pounds lost - 71-75 depending on when he steps on the scale. Total A1C - 5.3 (normal high is 5.6, anything over that gets you a diabetes diagnosis) Started at 11.6 Total cholesterol - 163 (I think), generally they want it to be under 200. Started around 200. Blood pressure normal.... started borderline high Total medications - ZERO!! Started on two different ones for diabetes, with th

momto6

momto6

 

Sinking funds

Sinking funds goals & amounts   Listed by priority 1. Tuition $2700/$3500 due Sept 7, 2016 2. Property tax $7/$2400 due Jan 1, 2017 3. Home/Auto Maintenance (EF for the EF), $2360/no cap --- need to set a monthly amount to contribute and forget about it -- ideally could keep in the $10k range, but would not object to getting it higher until we know what-all repairs may need to happen on the house when we decide to list 4. Vacation Fund $860/$2500 due Jun 1, 2017   Not a sinking fund,

Carrie

Carrie

 

I did it!

So in March I posted about the fact that I would be graduating soon. Well, I did it! I graduated (with high honors even!), took my scary certification exam which I passed. I'm now licensed and have a (very) part time job! *phew!* That was a crazy 3 years of school!   And, I'm happy to report that I graduated debt-free.   I'm quite certain that to most of the world it will sound crazy when I say this. Now I have the unique "problem" of not really knowing what to do with the little bit of mone

mooshie

mooshie

 

It's August!

It's a new month and I'm determined to make our budget work and get back on track! My goal is to get all of the baby steps in the budget, with our 10% gross to giving and a min $1000 snowball.   I want to convert the traditional iras to Roth, but need to do some tax planning to see if we can afford to do it this year. My health insurance is also going up so need to review that as well.   I would like to automate our 15% retirement so we can finally be consistent with BS4. I have automated th

gmarie

gmarie

 

sooo ready for August!

Well, it's been quite a month, and July is not even over yet! I think I'm going to hide out in our bedroom with the baby until it is, just in case!!   We fixed the balcony, replaced the boiler, and bought the pool fence. The boiler completely died two hours before the new one was delivered, leaving us with no hot water until his brother (who does hvac for a living) could come over to help install it...but they didn't have time to do the heat, so he'll have to come back... We have also been hav

gmarie

gmarie

 

Three weeks in

We are in our 4th week of being serious about this. Thank you for all the encouragement in my BS2 thread.   Here's our status as of today:   BS1 - $1,000 baby emergency fund - CHECK and moved to a separate account so it won't be even tempting to use for non-emergencies BS2 - $77,356.11 (down $7,501.73 from $84,857.84 in debt partially due to a leave payout DH received, but $1,106.73 on our own). 2 PIF, 5 to go. Balance on little one is $5,387.84   BS3 - 3-6 month emergency fund - need to

cadberry

cadberry

 

I've been tracking my expenses for six months - here's what surprised me

One of the things I wanted to work on during 2016 was to begin tracking our spending. Below is our actual average monthly spending (and what's in parentheses is what I "thought" we spent) that I was WAY off on:   Gas- $340 ($700) Auto repairs and registrations - $896 ($100 !!!!) Home stuff $450 ($50)   We also spent more than I thought on our vacation. And, my husband spent A LOT of money on his hobbies.   I know my tracking does not include all our our eating out and groceries since w

taylorcpa

taylorcpa

 

So... I found this store...

So, I usually do not do this, but I have to tell ya'll about a store I went to the other day. It was "Buford Highway Farmer's Market" in Atlanta (Doraville to be exact). It is SOOOOOOOO not a farmer's market, so if you go, don't expect it to be locally grown produce, or really local anything. But let me tell you about this store......     First it's the size of a Home Depot or Lowes. Second it's quite possibly the most wonderful store I've been to in a long time. It's basically a grocery stor

momto6

momto6

 

Baby Step Assessment

Where we are:   BS1 - $1,000 baby emergency fund - CHECK BS2 - $84,857.84 in debt (variety) BS3 - 3-6 month emergency fund - need to calculate what that will be when we don't have BS2. BS4 - 15% to retirement. DH has retired. We have his retirement pension and deferred comp (over $360K) for the future. I have 5 years until I'm eligible. BS5 - College. We have prepaid tuition for both children who are both in college. They have limited scholarships. One is self-sufficient, one is starting o

cadberry

cadberry

 

Our trip around the world (well the US anyway!)

We're back from our whirlwind trip around the US. Went to visit mom in Idaho, via Albuquerque, NM, and Portland, OR. Saw 4 families of relatives, one a brother DH hadn't seen in 30+ years. We now have 6 states left in the continental US that we haven't visited together. Had to replace two tires on the road.... no biggie since we have a sinking fund for tires. =o) Stayed within budget. Had a BLAST! Saw the Painted Desert, ate at a fabulous little restaurant in Albuquerque, drove the ET

momto6

momto6

 

haven't posted in a while

Haven't posted here in a while. Thought I would update, just to be able to come back later and see how things have changed or stayed the same.   We are still in treading water mode. My commissions were cut unexpectedly at work a few months ago (I am in insurance-this was a carrier decision, not my agency's, their income is down, too.) I am doing ok selling, but when your commissions are cut by 2/3, you have to sell three times as much to make the same amount of money. I am moving into other ty

bargainbabe

bargainbabe

 

Yard pictures, this is why I'm so tired tonight

Front planting bed, I expanded it, edged it with stone, and will plant hostas in the mulch area as soon as they arrive (mail ordered).   Pinestraw around new jasmine     New azaleas on dirt berm. Need to add mulch around the bushes, and hope to get some ground cover going here too.   Trying to get some curb appeal. I'm thinking rocking chair on the porch and a big planter of flowers.   Edit to add: new plants in front

Carrie

Carrie

 

Maybe ONE more! *L* - Diabetic check up.

So yesterday was our first three month check up. The one where they take his blood and check his numbers again.   His A1C, when we started this journey was 11.6 (which is bad, bad, bad).... It's now 5.8! (normal being between 4.5 and 5.7) He has lost 43 pounds. (51 left) His total cholesterol dropped 25%. His "good" cholesterol rose 33%. His bad cholesterol dropped 33%. Blood pressure dropped to "normal" numbers. (from near high)   Doc said that these numbers would indicate that he was

momto6

momto6

 

Hi All!

Thought I would give a quick update. Things here are doing pretty good, actually! Alex is doing well with his job, he just got a small raise. His division did very well but not all divisions hit their goals so it was a bit smaller than prior years had been. It's his first raise since he started and we were excited to get it! Our budget is balanced, we are getting ready to move to a larger apartment and are selling out all that we can from the storage unit. Not that it's necessary, this apa

SatinSky

SatinSky

 

Update: baby is here :-)

So I had the baby on 4/6, a week past my due date. I did end up with a c section after a 2 day labor so slowly recovering from that. But, he is healthy and perfect, and so incredibly adorable!! I wish he could stay this small forever. ;-) Breastfeeding is going well, he gained back his birth weight plus some (was born 7 lbs 9 oz and yesterday at the pediatrician's office he weighed 7 lb 13 oz). We started using the cloth diapers a few days ago and that has also been going well also. We love the

gmarie

gmarie

 

What's up with us

Let's see....   Dh started his new job last week. He is miserable. He is the top level of rank on the flightline before the jump to "the office". They are under manned and he is pretty frustrated. He is applying for every special duty available in an attempt to move to a new base.   I have been on my new medications for almost a week. The beta blocker has dropped my resting heart rate from 100 to 60. I may still need another medication to drop my blood pressure as well. The anti depressant

mimi

mimi

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